I have many thanks to give!

Family Mine!

     Thank you so much for the wonderful letter, and the wonderful pictures as well! I am glad to see that there is snow--there is nothing like Christmas with a dusting of white. There is no snow here, but the wind has picked up! I am doing great, and had a great Thanksgiving--we were in Sofia for a lot of the week for some extra training for Elder Wilson (and for us trainers as well), but we were able to get back to Varna just in time Thursday evening to eat Thanksgiving Dinner with a half-Russian half-American family, and there was more than enough food to go around! It was a good time--I will get some pictures, and see if I can't send them to you next week. I am so grateful for so many things...I will talk about that later.
       This week, in Sofia we were on exhanges with the Assistants to the President, but we had a chance to teach one of the (now) former investigators that I worked with in Sofia--we were talking with her about how we can recognize when God is speaking to us, and how to know how he guides us, and at one point in the conversation, Elder Kanuchion and I both reached for the Book of Mormon at the same time, and, without talking about it, simultaneously opened up to Moroni 7:16-17. We both looked at each other a little bit surprisedly, but then we smiled and moved forward. The Holy Ghost DOES bring back to our remembrance what we have studied before, and if we have prepared, he will prompt us to teach in the Lord's way. It was a neat experience!
        Mother; the shops are definitely getting into the Holiday spirit! They put up Christmas lights all around the whole town, so we are excited for that as well. They aren't really playing that much Christmas music as far as I know, but we also don't really spend that much time in stores, so it could very well be! They are very into Christmas, and have Santa Claus and Christmas Eve and a lot of those things--they also have some interesting traditions as well--I can't remember all the details at the moment though, so I will write them later. Thank you Mom, for all the hard work you put into Thanksgiving every year--it really is such a huge blessing to have that time together as a family. I am grateful for you Mom!
       Father; thank you so much for including those pictures and stories about your Father--I feel so blessed to be one of his Grandsons, and I am so grateful for the example that he set. Thank you so much for sharing those, Dad, they really do mean a LOT to me. We had the activity about Family History this week, and it just fills me with wonder, awe, and indescribable gratitude just to think about those who came before me, who have helped so much in shaping who I am, and have done so much just by setting such a meaningful example of faith! You are that kind of Father, Father, and I can only hope to become one such in the future. I am grateful for you, Father!
       Jordan! I am grateful for you because of your laugh, and your smile, and your willingness to be silly, and your willingness to put up with your goofy younger siblings, and so many other things that I cannot count, but I am grateful for you!
       Rees! I am so grateful for your faithful example, and also for your gift with words--I love your poetry, I love the way to talk, and I just love being around you. Thank you for being there to listen to me, and to be dumb with me from time to time. I am thankful for you!
       Paige; I love you so much! I am grateful for you because of your sweetness and for your wonderful personality--I have never met another person like you, little Archaeologist, Architect, Eco-Friendly singing Sister of mine! I am grateful for the love that I feel from you. I love you, and am thankful for you!
      Ronnie; I am thankful for your patience with me, and your sincere desires--I think about the most sincere people that I know, and you are right up there at the top little brother. I am grateful for your good desires, and for your kind-nature with those around you. I am grateful for you little brother!
       Lizzie; I am grateful for so many things about you, but I am so grateful for your dilligence! You have always been such a good example of doing the right thing consistently, because you simply know that it is the right thing. I am grateful for your smile, your hugs, and for the radiance that you have in your countenance. I am grateful for you!
       I am sure you have seen a thousand more inspiring messages about gratitude recently than I could give you in an Email, but I want you to know that I have a testimony of gratitude! It really does bring us happiness, regardless of our circumstances.
       This week, as I was reading and studying, I came across a great verse in 2 Nephi 18:6, talking about how the people of Israel refused the waters of Shiloh (see John 9:6-7), or in other words, The Savior and his power, and chose to seek after worldly power to solve their problems. At the end of so many stories that we read about in the Scriptures, Church History, and in our own lives, the Lord is simply trying to teach us that we must rely on Him, and if we do, we will overcome, we will truly be happy. I have been thinking about that a lot recently, and about what the Lord has been trying to teach me in that regard as of late. I know that if we can simply leave our pride at the door (and not just outwardly, but inwardly, down to our very core), and choose to do it the Lord's way, we will not only find true peace and happiness, but will find success. Of that I am certain. I love you all so much, have a great week! 
      I don't have a good picture of myself right now, and it is sort of dark where we are emailing, so I will take a good one this week, and be sure to send it to you next week--is that too late? I am so sorry! I will send the best one I have, though it may be a bit old! Maybe you could use the baptism one? I will send another next week, but that is the best I have for now. Sorry!

Love, 

Elder Hardy

A Full House!

Family Mine!

       Thank you so much for the wonderful letter! I am very glad to hear that you are all safe and sound, that no trees fell on anyone that I love (or anyone at all, hopefully!), and that we learned a great lesson about emergency preparedness--we loose water here about 3-4 times a week here (for the last 4-5 weeks or so because they are doing a HUGE reconstruction of the water system in Varna), and it really has made me appreciate how good it feel to be prepared, and how much of a let down it is to NOT be. Also, we talked about the Second Coming in Gospel Principles, so it was a full sweep from the Spirit about thinking ahead. I think of all the things that serving as a Missionary has taught me, that is one of the most salient. Be Prepared!
         This week was good--we were on exchanges with the Elders from Ruse, but I was here in Varna. This week we had the chance to talk to a (now) less-active member, and to hear his conversion story--he went from church to church, has read the Bible over and over, has read the Koran and the Talmuda, and practiced most Eastern Religions for at least a little bit, but when he came to the Church, he just said that it felt so right, he simply knew that it was the place that he had been searching for, the place that God wanted him to end up at. However, after a couple of years, he fell out of the everyday habits, and (in his own words) fell into "hibernation" as a member (I was sorely tempted to give him Elder Ukedorf's talk about Sleeping through the Restoration, but maybe a little later). It was great to be able to help him come back to the basics, and he said a great closing prayer. Small and Simple things! It was a great week.
         Mother; we were invited to Thanksgiving at the home of a half-American half-Russian Family that recently moved to live here in Varna, but we might be on a bus back from Sofia, so we'll see--it might be some cashews and banitza on the bus this year, but for that we can still be thankful! Thank you in advance for sending the package! Elder Stakebake decorated the apartment for Christmas last week, and we even sang some Christmas Songs in church yesterday (more because the first speaker went really short, but still), so we are excited. Church yesterday was a blast--we had probably 9-10 nonmembers there, including people from Algeria, Sweden, Germany, and even Bulgaria--It was a full house! It was great fun. Love you so much!
         Father; that paragraph above was my first attempt--I will try to improve! Also, I was reading some of your poems this week, and they are so good, I think I am going to try and translate a few of them into Bulgarian to share with some members. I love you so much!
         Paige; Every picture, you look more and more grown up. Crazy. I love you so much, share your smile with those around you! I have been thinking a lot about social pressure this week...it is a decision to live the Gospel, and it is a choice to be different. I promise you that making that choice (though I think you already have), will bring you 1000% more happiness, no matter what those around you say. Stick to those who share your standards, and love the brains out of those who don't. Read For the Strength of Youth, and live what is in it, and you will be strong in a way that no one around you is, because you will be full of the Holy Ghost, you will truly be walking tall before your Father in Heaven. I love you so much! Ronnie, Lizzie, all that goes for you as well!
     Ronnie; Camp-out! Have a good time with those young men, love and serve them--what a blessing to be part of a priesthood quorum! The young men here really don't have that chance--it is such a blessing. I love you little brother!
      Lizzie; I love you, little Sister! Keep loving your big brothers and sisters, and your friends as well. Listen to Paige, she is a great guide, and I know that you'll be happy. I love you!
      So many thoughts this week...I have been thinking about how we can work more closely with our Branch Leaders this week, and it really has made an impression on me one, how vital it is for us to come together as ONE as Saints, in all the phases of service, but also how vital it is to really CARE about the service that we give. Do we truly, honestly, deep in our Hearts, care about those who are part of our Ward Family? Do we think about them on days other than Sunday? Do we pray for them sincerely, not just because we think that we should? Does it sting us when we see empty pews in Sacrament Meeting, not because we just want full pews, but because we know the blessings missed by those for whom our heart burns? Have WE tasted of the fruit ourselves? When was the last time that we truly felt the Spirit burn in our hearts? Those are the feelings that will truly lead us to be dedicated servants of the Lord, and that without hypocrisy, and without guile. I need to care more, I need to love more, because, while it opens our heart for more hurt, it unlocks our heart to the greatest joy. The Savior, who suffered all, truly has the greatest capacity to love, because his heart was the most open to be hurt. May we love those around us and serve more sincerely (and I as well!). I love you all so much, have a great week!

With a smile,
Elder Hardy

Time Flies...

Family Mine!

      Thank you so much for the wonderful letter! I do not have as much time as I would like to write today, but I really am grateful for the time that I do have, and for all the wonderful news!
      This week we were doing exchanges just in Varna, so we didn't travel this week! It was nice, and we had the opportunity to do some neat service this week--there is a Catholic soup Kitchen in our area, and we had the chance to go and help out serving the food there. Service really truly is a powerful way to feel the Spirit, it is truly the most fulfilling of all activities, and is ordained of God. God encourages us to always be serving those around us for so many reasons, but the simple joy of seeing others happier because of what you have done for them...that in of itself has no replacement, fills one with a joy that cannot be found in doing any other action, in any other use of one's time. Truly, he who is in the service of his fellow men is not only in the service of his God, but in a backwards, strangely paradoxical way, of his own soul. I am glad we have the scriptures to guide us to that course!
     Mother; however you feel--my size is 9, maybe 9 and a half... a 42, whatever that works out to be. I will be happy with whatever, but I just learned that Elder Stakebake really likes Twizzlers, so that might be a good thing to throw in there. Thank you so much! We still teach English, and it is certainly fun. We do a lot of analogies and things to keep it interesting. Elder Wilson is doing well--it is fun to see him be surprised and amazed the same way I was when I got here by all the little quirks. Fun. Also, if there are any more FAmily History stories, we are having an activity soon...if there are any more, it would be appreciated. I love you so much!
      Dad! I love you so much, thank you for your advice and your example. I am grateful I have this time as a Missionary to be able to learn how to follow the Spirit, so that I can be a useful tool of the Lord wherever I am placed in my Ward, and also as a Father. We have been pushing as a Mission to get back to the basics as members, including daily family scripture study. How are we doing? I love you so much!
      Jordan! Wow, you are so beautiful! I am so grateful for your example of faithful and tireless service. I love you so much, you are so blessed to get to be in the Temple that frequently...it fills me with such gratitude that we live so close to a Temple...do we realize how great a blessing that is? i love you so much!
    Paige, you are truly stunning. I love you so much, keep singing, have a great week!
    Ronnie; pins for wins. Love!
     Lizzie: I love you little Sister! Give Jordan another squeeze for me! I love you so much.
     Again. so sorry that I do not have more time, but I just want to let you know how grateful I am for the time that the Lord has given me to serve. There really is no greater happiness than seeing happiness in those that you love, in seeing the here and now swapped for the eternal and everlasting, to see a guiding light shined where there is darkness, to see the Spirit illuminate one's soul. I feel so blessed that I have been able to see that light shined in my life, to know the Plan, to know how to make the most of the time given to me, by giving it to others. O how much I love you all! Много ви обичам! 

Smiles,
Elder Hardy


God's Grace

Family Mine!

     It is good for things to be back to normal! Also, thank you for the great letters. It is sort of weird to have this short of a gap between writing, but it happens. I love you so much!
     The end of the week was fairly normal, with some good experiences teaching and tracting as well--we got let in at a few places, and talked with a lot of very friendly people, which is always good. Also, very healthy for Elder Wilson's desire to do that sort of contacting, which was a great blessing from the Lord, because, as he will find out, not every night is exactly like that one! I hope they all are that way for him--he is a great Missionary. Other than that, I played piano in our 2 1/2 member primary, mostly for the little blond Russian-American children, which was fun. They can't decide which language they want to sing in! Fun. 
     Give a HUGE hug to Jordan for me! Let her know that I love her, and am very proud of her!
    Mother; that is an interesting thought, right? The world is a funny place, and the Lord finds all sorts of interesting ways to change our perspective. I had some other ideas for the package, but I can't remember them, so no worries! Thank you so much, in advance! I love you.Give Hailey a high-five from me, and tell her that I am impressed by her musical abilities. We do not have a primary program mostly because until a few weeks ago, we had one nursery child and one 10 year-old, but maybe in the future! I love you so much!
      Father; I love what you said about your testimony being shown by how you live after your Mission--when Elder Klebingat came, he talked a LOT about how now is the time to decide how our lives will be different because we served a mission, and what we can do to protect ourselves from the temptations that will certainly come. His main message was...be preparing now! Like Moroni prepared for the oncoming Lamanites well before they arrived, and continued to prepare after they had even left, defeated, we need to choose NOW to be the time to build our defenses, to decide what sort of person we will be. I love you Father!
      Paige; keep singing little Sister, I love you so much, be sure to always let your light shine! I have the picture of you in your Homecoming dress in my album, and people usually let out a little gasp when they get to that picture. I love you so much, you are beautiful!
      Ronnie; ask Dad about the point system, and then just go out there and have a blast. Wrestling really does get you in good shape, and will be extremely useful in your future roll as undefeatable Uncle Ronnie! I love you, keep singing, read PMG!
      Lizzie; I love you so much! Did you know that Volleyball is almost as popular as Soccer (not AS popular, but getting there) here in Bulgaria? People go crazy about it. Keep playing, it is a fun sport. I love you so much!
      As a Missionary, I really can say that through work, I have changed things about myself, I really have seen some personal progress, for which I am extremely grateful, but there are still a few things that I just cannot seem to overcome, that it feels like I take one step forward, two steps back. AS I was reading and pondering the scriptures and some materials that President Barclay gave us this week, however, I came to a realization about a principle that I have read and talked about so many times, but maybe just haven't faithfully applied, and therefore did not truly understand. What does it mean to be changed by Grace, or in other words, the enabling power of the Atonement? I was really struck by 2 Nephi 10:24, where it talks about how we need to submit our will to the Father, only AFTER which his grace can work a mighty change on us--in other words, God will not help us become what He doesn't want/ knows we should not become! The first step in truly experiencing a true, deep change is to seek His council, to know what HE sees us as becoming, how we can truly progress in the most appropriate direction, as opposed to simply relying on our own wisdom. Work is a key key element in changing ourselves, but without the help of the Savior, we truly cannot overcome those biggest barriers, those most stubbornly entrenched attributes of the Natural Man, burrowed deeply into the corners of our Character. He requires us to come to him to be able to overcome them not only because they are too much for us alone, but because He, in his love, wants us to experience and be sure of his care and concern for us. I know it is true, because I have seen it, and hope to continue to see it in my life. I hope that we will all turn to the Savior to receive his Grace, to truly be able to change, to become little by little more like Him, and thus more joyful and happy. 
     I love you all so much, have a great week!

With Love, 
Elder Hardy

Roman Bath Ruins! That one is for Paige.

An interesting Statue...that is the Black Sea in the Background

We took these pictures on a morning run. Go Varna!

What a week...and a Half!

Dear Family,

     Thank you for the wonderful letter! It is so great to hear from you. Wow! It is so weird to think that I am going to be the only missionary in our family...strange. Give her a big hug from me when she gets off that airplane! Or out of the car more likely! 
      Sorry for the delay--these last 10 days or so have been very busy, yet fulfilling! On Wednesday we went to Sofia and picked up Elder Wilson, fresh out of the MTC--he is from the heart of Salt Lake, and is really great. I really mostly feel bad for him, because the next 9 days (i.e. his first 9 days in Bulgaria) were pretty off the wall. We had a baptism on Friday, the Halloween Party on Saturday (I will be sure to send you pictures next week--I have to get them from Sister Christensen--I went as a wizard), then a Europe East Area Broadcast, with some really great speakers on Sunday. Monday gets it's own paragraph.
       We wake up early to catch a 730 bus to Sofia, so that Elder Stakebake and I can be there for a 230 Mission Council with Elder Klebingat from the Seventy, only to get there and find out that there are 2 seats free... but not 3! We frantically checked other buses and trains only to find out that there was nothing that could get us there in time, or even near enough for the Assistants to come and get us in their car. In our slight panic, Elder Stakebake jokingly looks over at the signs and says "there is a flight at 830 for Sofia!". We all laughed, a few seconds passed, then we looked at each other...a few phone calls later, we were in a Taxi going to the Airport, when we realized that Elder Wilson had no personal identification--a few frantic calls and the other Varna Elders were on the way to our apartment which they got into through a miracle, and then speeding to the Airport. At this point, we had found out that the flight, miraculously, actually departs at 855. At around 835, we hadn't bought tickets yet, because we couldn't buy one for Elder Wilson, when someone suggested that we call President, ask to be able to leave Elder Wilson for the other Elders to pick up 6 minutes later, for Elder Stakebake and I to buy tickets, and to just jump on. Thanks to a VERY kind ticketing agent and the insistence of an information lady, about a 2 minute trip through security, and a LARGE depletion in Elder Hardy's MSF for the month, we jumped on the plane at about 850, and were in Sofia by about 930. Heart Attack. We washed President's Car for the headache that we gave him (he was very kind), the Council was WONDERFUL (more on that on Monday when there is more time), and we reunited with our distressed trainee that evening. I will never forget that day. 
      Other than that, life is fairly normal. I can write more next week.
       Mother; we do get an extra hour of study for trainees, and we study the language for an hour every day, whether we have a trainee or not (though we do our best to not cut it short for a lesson, which we may or may not have done before). In terms of a package, the Cliff Bars are great, there are good breakfast things, but I do need some more gray dress socks, and a few ties would be fun as well. Lucky Charms wouldn't be bad either, but whatever you think--I trust you! Thank you so much Mom. I love you!
       Father, thank you for your good example! I learned a lot about planning ahead this week, and I am grateful for your example of diligence. I love you so much Father!
       Paige; Cabin Leader...Fancy! I love you so much little Sister. Say hello to the Choir for me! Both of my companions sing, so we sang a trio for Zone Conference. Number 100! 
       Ronnie; pins give the team more points in the end of the Match anyway, so keep it up! I love you so much little Brother. Keep being a good example, love you friends, love your Mother!
       Lizzie; I love how all of your candy is organized in that picture. So typical! You are a great example to me, and you sure are sweet! I love you.
     The work here in Varna is going well--one young man hasa baptismal date for 12 December--he is a deep thinker, and likes to take things slowly, but he said the opening prayer out loud last night, he expressed a good understanding that he needs to come to church every Sunday after he is baptized, and he committed to read the Book of Mormon every day, so we are hopeful for him! He is one of the funniest people that I have met. Life is great!
      When was the last time that we seriously repented? I thought about that this week--if we really can become good repenters, we can always have the Spirit to be with us. I love you all so much!

Love, 
Elder Hardy