Drop, T, Throw!

Family Mine!

      This week has been a wonderful week--we had new Missionaries coming in, and one of them actually Visa-waited in the Las Vegas West Mission with who else but...one of Elder Alley's former companions! That was a fun little connection (apparently Elder Alley made a large positive impression on this Elder, so Elder Jones (the one who visa waited) had heard all about him). Our world is a small, funny place.
       This week on Saturday, we had a chance to teach that young man that I sent you a picture of how to play baseball, and it was a blast--I felt like I was back in Summer Camp at Northwood! He really had a great time, and we have been able to work with him a lot more about getting ready for a mission lately, which has been a real blessing--the Lord really does work by small and simple means.
        I am so grateful that the Lord let me come on a Mission--everyday that I am here I feel my desires changing, my will being strengthened, edges of my character being sanded off (hopefully the bad ones, and not the good ones). This week, as we were working with a few members, we got into a discussion that I have had too many times on my Mission--"I would like to [insert aspect of Gospel living], but I just don't have time! Once I clear up my problem with [insert trial / hardship of some kind], I will start doing that again." I really have come to gain a testimony that, no matter what our problem, concern or hardship, the answer is always to increase our faithfulness, to rely MORE fully on his power, not to draw ourselves away from his power through our choices. I have yet to go through similar trials to those of these wonderful members, and I don't pretend to know perfectly their circumstances, but it is my prayer that when I find myself in that moment, I will have the courage and faith to practice what the Spirit has been preaching to me this week.
        Mother; thank you for all the work that you have put into, and continue putting into helping me get started in College--I will send you a separate email about the classes (just so you don't have to dig through this one), but I just want to let you know how grateful I am to have such a talented, intelligent Mother. This week we got 5 from the MTC (they are all so great!), and we didn't do any traveling. This morning I learned the word пълзя, which means to crawl--I probably would have understood it in context, but now I can use it! There are so many words like that at this point...now I just get to move them from the foggy cloud of half-knowing them, to really knowing them. I love you so much!
        Father; thank you for being such a great example! I really have gained a testimony of that statement (I think by Elder Bendar?) that a Mission is not the best two years OF your life, but really FOR your life. I love you so much, thank you for sending me pictures--I love seeing your faces and smiles and hearing about your adventures.
        Paige; talk about a last second night-mare! What a serious blessing that the other guy could fill in--otherwise you would be stuck doing it! Question; you have your own Kayak? Whoa. Is that a consequence of AFY? I love you so much, and am so proud of you!
       Ron--we ran into a guy who is competitor in the World's Strongest Man competition (huge, HUGE Muslim man. Very kind-hearted individual), and when I told him I used to lift weights but didn't really get that large, he just said to me "meat, you need to eat more meat!". Take it from him, little brother, not from me. Make sure to be aware of what company you fall into, and remember always who you are--there is no social circle worth entering for which the entry price is your standards, or the worthiness necessary to have true Priesthood Power. Those things are the price of entry into a MUCH more joyful association, i.e. with Heavenly Father. I love you little big brother!
      Lizzie, you look great! In that second picture, you look like a full-blown teenager! I hope you know that I love you so much, and am so grateful for your example. I love you.
       The Church is true, the Book of Mormon is the word of God! We are truly led today by Prophets, Seers and Revelators--if you want to read more about what that means, try Mosiah 8. Very enlightening chapter. I love you all so much!

With a smile,
Elder Hardy
A Department store in Center.

Basketball! But Yogurt first.

The old city of Serdika, and a nice Mosque in the background--this is smack dab in the middle of Sofia, basically inside of a Metro stop.

Re: BYU Class Schedule Ideas

Thank you so much for putting this all together! I looked them all over, and prayed about it (this is when I am glad that I can email in the Mission Office, and not in the Computer Cafe!), and really feel like I know what I want to do.

I think that taking Bulgarian 330, Math 112, Chemistry 111, and Book of Mormon will give me a good foundation, then I want to take the Men's Chorus (half to keep my foot in the Music door, half because it will be super fun), The STDEV 272 will keep my foot in the Medicine Door and I am sure will be really interesting, without a huge commitment, and I think Social Dance would be a blast (and useful for other, unspecified non-academic goals...). I think 15 Credits will be a good start--I really want to make sure I can spend time getting my brain back around the Chemistry, which will probably mean a lot of time in the Library, but I think it will be good to not have too many new curve-balls coming at me from Physics. So, to sum it up;

Bulgarian 330     (3)
Chemistry 111    (4)
Math 112           (4)
Book of Mormon (2)
STDEV 272        (1)
Men's Chorus      (.5)
Social Dance       (.5)

I really feel good about that--thank you again so much for the work you put into that. I love you so much, have a great week!

Elder Hardy


On Mon, May 30, 2016 at 8:51 AM, Ronald Hardy <rjhardy8@gmail.com> wrote:
Elder Hardy,

I know you don't really want to talk too much about this, but we need to do a little planning.  I will be able to register you for classes next Monday evening.  (you have so many AP credits, you got the earliest registration time for Freshman).  I looked at the suggested schedule of classes for a Biochem major and the list of classes that you tested out of.  Here is a suggested schedule (with some questions or things to think about):

Fall 2016

Bulgarian 330   3 credits  (this is the entry course for Bulgarian RM's - you can then get credit by examination for Bulgarian 101, 102, 201, 211R.  They don't have a Bulgarian minor, but you can get a certificate of fluency from the university)

Chemistry 111  4 credits (this is the entry level Chemistry class for Chemistry and Biochem majors.  The series is Chem 111, 112 and 113 (113 is the lab).  There is a little "simpler" series for non-majors which is Chem 105, 106, 107.  That is actually the route I went, because I got started on the series late.  You will be fine in Chem 111)

Math 112  4 credits  (This is Calculus.  You tested out of this course with your AP test.  But I think you will be happier to take it again.  Totally up to you.)

Book of Mormon  2 credits


So far that is 13 credits.  Full time students take between 12 and 18 credits.  Your Dad and I usually took between 16 and 18 credits.  BUT those 4 credit classes are going to meet every day and will most likely have daily homework.   Here are some other classes to consider:

Men's Chorus  0.5 credits  (although this class is only 0.5 credits, I think they meet almost every day.  So, while it's not a hard class, it does take up some time.  I think you would love it!!)

STDEV 272  1 credit  (this is a "student development" class that meets once a week.  Preview of medical practice with lectures by doctors; overview of required courses; application process; recommended extracurricular opportunities.)  I think Max might be taking this class.

Physics 121  3 credits  (this is your beginning physics class.  The map doesn't have you staring the physics series until your sophomore year, but you are so far ahead with your GE credits, that you could get it started either this fall or winter semester if you wanted.)


So, you can take those 13 credits and then add Men's Chorus and the STDEV class and be up to 14.5.  This might be a good number of credits to start with (especially with the choir and those homework heavy classes).  Max may be taking a Social Dance class - we could sign you up for one of those as well (probably 0.5 credits).  Or you could skip the STDEV class and take Men's Chorus and Physics for 16.5 credits.  That would be a pretty full academic schedule:  calculus, physics, chemistry and bulgarian and religion.

Let me know what you are thinking.  Are there any other classes you want to know more about?  I know it's hard since you don't know what to expect.  I think any of these choices are totally doable - you are a great student!

I love you!

mom

Not So New Beginnings

Family Mine!

     Thank you so much for the wonderful letter! It really is a treat to read all about your comings and goings, your too-and-fro, the little miracles of everyday life. Isn't life grand? I love it. 
       It was a really rewarding week--the Office Elders (i.e. My MTC group and one of my trainees) had an amazing week, ending with the (almost) unexpected baptism of Georgi. I cannot express how grateful and happy I am for Georgi--it was absolutely incredible to see how his countenance was changed as he came to church yesterday, throughout the whole baptismal service, and afterwards as well. The outpouring of love and support from the Branch was incredible, and the fact that his Mother and friends were there to witness the whole thing, and to feel of that strong Spirit was even more incredible. God really is a God of miracles, and rewards us with his Spirit in equal proportion to the Faith that we exert in his name--Georgi took a step of faith, and the Spirit really has already started to change him. I have been studying about conversion, and about following the Spirit this week, and the more I study, the more and more it becomes clear to me that if I want to change, that if I want to truly become converted, I should focus my efforts on living and praying in such a way to ALWAYS have the Spirit with me. When I truly am feeling the influence of the Spirit, I feel no desire to be sarcastic or to make untimely jokes, I have a much more clear awareness of how much I am talking and when I should stop, I feel NO desire to seek the faults in others, but only to help, I have no desire to seek my own will, but to give all I am to the Lord (to be consecrated, in a word)...He (the Spirit) really makes all the difference. I love the analogy of the Pickle-Jar by Elder Bednar; if we want to be changed from "cucumbers to pickles" (or from the natural man to the fulfillment our true spiritual identity), we need to saturate ourselves not in brine, but in the Spirit of the Lord, to not sit long in a solution of man's concoction, but in a pattern of Covenant keeping, Gospel Living. Great stuff.
       In other news, Elder Strobl and I are staying together again in the same area (transfer time comes around so fast!), which I am very excited about--we have a lot of great potential in our area, and have faith that this coming transfer is going to be a great one. Round three with the Ivy League Idahoan! 
        Mother; I absolutely have had some "just eat it moments" along with, "and it looks like you're going to have to eat your companion's portion as well" moments. It's ok though! Eating is like a relationship--you look for the good in every ястие! (Dish). Thank you so much for keeping me updated on the missionaries--I am so glad to hear about Benton and Tevah and the Sants, but I am the most excited about Alex and Christian. I love them so much, and am so excited for them! Serving the Lord is such a wonderful blessing. In terms of a package, I think the only thing might be a few gallon-size Zip-Lock bags. They are really hard to find here! Also, M&M's would not go amiss. Other than that, I am doing great--thank you so much for thinking of me. I love you so much!
         Father; I love what you said-- "Sprint through the finish line and on into the consecrated life." That really is an important fact--the more I think about it, a mission really is a warm-up lap with lots of coaches and few distractions, preparing a runner for the real competition. I love serving the Lord so much. I absolutely agree about writing talks--it is a great way to turn feelings and impressions into thoughts, conclusions, and eventually knowledge, I am grateful to be part of a Church that allows it's members to grow in such a way. Thank you for your example, have a great week!
        Jordan! So many thoughts, memories, feelings...one of my favorite pictures that is in the Album I show people is the one where you are holding the crab whilst your two frightened little brothers look on bashfully. You always have been the bravest, the most ready for adventure and a laugh (which was usually painful to those in your direct vicinity, due to that wonderful and sentimental punching habit). You have always been the leader of the pack, the inventor of the game, the mastermind of the plan, the lead soprano who was always ready to sing harmony. Thank you for being you, Sister. I love your smile, I love your confusing-hair color (thanks, by the way--I inherited it to some extent), I love your willingness, your dedication to your family, and to me. I am grateful for your example and for your love. Thank you for helping me to love books, for being goofy, but knowing when not to be. Thank you for your love of music, it influences me every day. Thank you for leading the way, Како. It is strange that you are turning 24. I don't know what I did in the Pre-Earth Life to get the privilege of being your Brother, but whatever it was, I am glad that I did it. I love you, Happy Birthday! 
        Paige; I love you so much! I love picturing you with the headset on, hustling a group of nervous, make-up clad 8 year-olds onto the stage so they don't miss their cue. I am sure you do great. I love you so much little Sister!
        Ronnie; effort really does make the difference, and learning to give one's all is a skill that only comes through practice. It is not only a sports skill however, it goes for all things, including the Gospel; whenever the wispy mists of casualness or laziness start creeping into my mind, I love thinking about D&C 58:27, or the oft repeated phrase "be ye not weary in well-doing". You have so many skills and talents little Brother...remember that they really only come into effect when they are used. I love you so much, Big Ron, I hope you know that. Have a great week!
       Lizzie; you look so happy for just having run so long! I am proud of you, and love your smile. I love you so much little Sister!
      Well, my time is up. I love you all so much!

Love,
Elder Hardy

Alex! The Young man in the branch. He is great.

A beautiful Bulgarian Rose. We ARE famous for them, don't you know

Make sure not to post this one to Social Media or anything like that (well, all of the pictures I send with Bulgarians in them, really). This is Georgi, who was baptized yesterday here in Sofia. He is a really great guy!

A Whirlwind..

Family Mine!

     Thank you so much for the wonderful letters! I really appreciate the insights that you share with me from the scriptures--I am so glad that I have family that not only studies and understands the scriptures, but then goes on to discuss them one with another! I am doing really well--we had a very busy week, but we still managed to do a lot of teaching, which is always a great blessing from the Lord.
      I really have been pondering even more and more about goals this week, and about what role they have played in changing my life and my missionary work. When Brother Metodiev called in sick Saturday night and I suddenly became the second speaker on Sunday, I took the opportunity to talk about the subject (in a more general light), and it was such a great blessing to prepare that talk, and to find more insights. As I have pondered about it more and more, I have been realizing that, while I have never struggled with setting good, meaningful, stretching, achievable goals for myself, I have never really been THAT committed to them (for example, study goals, or even some goals for self-improvement)--I have always set out with great intent, and a sincere desire to improve in that area, but then have always let my focus be drawn away by other thoughts, ideas, concerns or issues. I have DEFINITELY set more goals than I have ever reached (though I don't believe that to be a wildly abnormal pattern). All in all, I am excited to improve in this coming week. These verses in 3 Nephi 13 really struck me as I was preparing; 

22 The light of the body is the eye; if, therefore, thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.

 23 But if thine eye be evil, thy whole body shall be full of darkness. If, therefore, the light that is in thee be darkness, how great is that darkness!

What we FOCUS on, what we turn our eye to really is what and who we become! If our eyes are constantly turned toward righteous goals (and especially GOD's goal for us--Moses 1:39), our body will be full of light, we will find the strength and power and direction that we need in a more and more confusing world. Righteous decisions change from a difficult choice to the ONLY reasonable choice, the Gospel path laid out to us in the scriptures stops looking life an inconvenient detour, and becomes the only possibility, a joyous road to a more glorious destination. Great stuff. I will be doing some repenting this week--turns out that practicing what you preach is a lot harder than the Apostles make it seem. 

In other news, there were Zone Conferences this week, and Elder Strobel and I had a chance to teach about teaching with clarity and about organizing our lessons plans according to a model that Elder Callister laid out the mission WAY back at the beginning of my Mission (while I was in Colorado, actually, but I got some first-hand notes), and it went really well. I really love the Missionaries in our mission, they are so wonderful.

     Mother; it has been strange weather this week--it goes from sunny and fairly warm to raining cats and dogs and then back, all in the course of a few hours (sort of reminds me of Spokane at times), but overall, it is warming up. It is light until later and later everyday, which is sort of surreal, but nice. Soccer drama is no fun! I am glad that everything worked out alright, and I am sure that the Season will go well--I have learned that people offended by mis-understandings are fairly well doomed to spend most of their lifetime offended. As long as we are sincere, and in our hearts truly have pure motives, what needs to come to light will come to light, in the due time of the Lord. I love you mother, thank you for always being there to run back home and grab our equipment! I do remember that, actually. Good times.
     Father; thank you for the wonderful letter! 80 patients! Wow. I wish I could teach that many lessons in 2.5 days...trade you! I love you so much, Father. Thank you for your good example!
      Paige; woah! You are seriously beautiful! I am so grateful that you choose to be modest--it really is worth it, I promise you. At risk of sounding like a Young Woman Leader, true beauty comes from the heart, and is shown through our actions and our words much more than outward appearance. I love you so much, I hope you get a 37 on the ACT!
      Ronnie; don't we have a great Mother? I sure love her. Thank you for helping her (as I did) develop the Christ-Like attributes of patience and long-suffering. I love you so much little Brother, keep being a good example to your friends, you can make a difference in their life!
      Lizzie; I love you so much! I am so proud of your accomplishments on the Piano. It really is a life-long skill, and a blessing that finds more ways to repeat itself than a combo-Jazz group (ask Rees about that one, he'll tell you). I love you so much.
      The Book of Mormon is the word of God, and will protect us from Spiritual confusion. May we read it everyday! I love you all so much.

With a Smile,
Elder Hardy

Sorry! Only Scenery Pictures this week.



The Sea!

The sea...Again!

The Pear Doesn't Fall Far From the Tree.

Family Mine!

     It was so great to see your faces and to hear your laughter and to get to talk to you--I love you all so much, and am so grateful for all that you have done and do for me, and for the great love that you have for each other, and for those around you. Elder Strobel had finished his Skype right before I got on, and as I watched him talk to his family for a little bit, then started talking with you all, a Bulgarian twist on an English idiom (or maybe the other way around--Bulgaria is a pretty old country, don't you know) came to mind, which I put as the title. (Крушката не пада делеч от дървото). Really, our family environment does so much in not only forming our mannerisms, ways of speech and communication, but even in the way that we think, act, interpret the world and those around us. I am grateful that I fell from a good, healthy, wonderful, strong tree, deep in root, and towering in foliage (towering in Spiritual height, I mean). I love you so much, family!
      This week, I really have been showed so many of my weaknesses, and, especially this week, I have been wracked with guilt and just frustration for the times that I have said things in a way that I don't want to ( or more than I should), or acted in non-Christ-like ways, or been visited by less-than-kind thoughts. I think I have done more repenting these last 4 weeks (and this last week especially) than I ever have in such a short time, but it really has helped me understand the power of the Atonement so much more in my life. He DOES forgive us of our mistakes, he DOES offer us a hand to enable us to overcome our weaknesses, he DOES love us despite everything. I still have so much farther to go, and want to cry with Nephi, "O wretched man that I am!", but I am grateful for the lessons I have learned. I am very grateful for the Gospel in my life, very grateful. I know with a SURETY that the Savior lives, and that he loves and cares for us, that there is no depth to which his hand cannot reach, there is no condition with which he cannot commiserate, and not only commiserate, but to show the escape, for he has already found it, he has already stamped down the weeds and cleared the bushes to make the way back to our Father. All we must do is trust him. 
         Mother; Thank you for the good questions and I hope that I answered them effectively! If you could send me that list of classes when you get a chance, that would be great (but maybe in a little while). I think I might want to re-take some of the beginning science classes, but I need to think about it a little more. We'll see. Thank you so much for doing that for me, Mom. I love you so much! 
          Father; it was great to see your face! Thank you so much for praying for our investigators, they really need it, and I know that prayer has power. I love you so much Dad!
           Paige; you now have a REALLY big little brother! Thank you for being a good example to him and to all those around you. I love seeing your smiling face. Have a great week!
           Ron; you are so large! I am grateful that there is someone around of that size to intimidate dates that come by (that is, if Rees's mountain-man appearance doesn't do it first!). May you grow just as quickly in spiritual stature as well. I love you so much little brother!
           Lizzie; you really are becoming quite the young woman, little Sister. I love you so much--make sure and keep the family in line for me! 
       I love you all so much, have a great, great week!

Love,
Elder Hardy


A Fastidious Easter

Family Mine!

      Thank you so much for the wonderful letter! It sounds like Spring is in full swing--here we are still enjoying some windy and chilly weather, but (in my opinion at least) it is much better than the dead, sweaty heat that we were going through last year in Sofia at this time. Maybe it is just my Northwestern-ness peaking through. I am always filled with joy when I read about your going and comings, and read of your testimonies. 
        Христос възкресе! (this is when you then answer back--воистина възкресе!). This Sunday was Orthodox Easter, and (as I told you last year), Christians go around all day saying that to each other. Sort of a neat echo still bouncing around the birthing ground of Christianity--it takes me back to those first apostles, excitedly and sometimes doubtfully spreading the news one to another of the miraculous and unprecedented miracle of the Resurrection. It is just as true now as it was then--He is Risen, the tomb is empty, He is risen as he said. Great stuff.
         On another note, it was also Fast Sunday, so it was a great test of temptation resistance skills, because everyone was giving each other boiled eggs and traditional Easter sweet bread after Sacrament meeting. On a positive note, I endured! This week really was a meaningful fast.Yesterday, as I was fasting, I really saw the Lord answering my prayers, and I really truly felt as if I had made a step forward on not only making good judgement, but on being more humble. For maybe the first time I believe I really understood the power that fasting can have in giving us additional connection to our Father in Heaven, in being more in tune with the quiet voice of the Spirit by excluding, even for a short time, the dependence on the temporal. Very eye-opening. In other news, we went on a bunch of exchanges this week, which was great. We had the chance to work with Elders from Plovdiv and Varna, and it was insightful to work with them both--I loved listening to Elder Abbot's conversion story, and feeling his calm energy and faith, and I really was uplifted as I talked with Elder Woods, and got his take of the Mission Goals--he really is great example of thorough thinking and quiet strength. I have been working on being more calm and collected, and it was a great blessing for me to get to work with both of these wonderful Elders this week. 
      Mother; most people here just grow things in their house, or out in front of their Blocks, and a LOT of people have some land out in a village outside the city, where they grow lots of different things. Bulgarians eat TONS of fresh vegetables, and share a common hatred for fruits or vegetables that are laced with preservatives. They pretty much just love anything that grows in general, but especially their cucumbers and tomatoes. MOTHER'S DAY: I can get on Skype Sunday at 5:00 PM (1700) my time, which I believe translates to 7:00 AM your time, Sunday Morning. Will that work out? The call is going to be 45 minutes, so you should have time to still get to church on time. If there is anything that changes that, just email the Mission, and they can notify me. Looking forward to seeing you all!
       Father: I am doing great, and so is my companion--he has had some heath issues this week, but he has not complained once, nor let it slow him down in the slightest. Great man. My Mission President is from Manti, but he lived in Idaho for a long time as well--he is a welder by trade (though he is more like and inventor and businessman, but he always insists he is just a welder). They are wonderful and humble and full of the Spirit. Sister Barclay taught piano lessons, and they are the parents of 7 children and 23 grandchildren. His brother is actually coming to serve a Senior Mission here in July, for the SECOND time serving in Bulgaria--I was in Sofia last year when Elder Barclay (President Barclay's Brother) left! Time sure flies. My Journal is pretty good--I have improved recently. I love you Father!
         Jordan; do you remember when you fell off that tree bridge? That seems like ages ago. I love you so much!
          Rees; I am still waiting for a response about that joke. I thought it was pretty good! Also, I think you are forgetting one of the key elements of yard care--children! If you have 8 or 9, you can just direct traffic and pay them allowance for their work. It's a flawless plan! I love you Brother.
         Paige; congratulations! I am proud of you. I know that you will do great things this coming year. A Senior...wow! I love you so much.
          Ronnie; don't worry a bit--I was pretty disappointed when I didn't get in the first time as well, but it all worked out for my good in the end--the Lord has a plan. Go score a few touchdowns for me!
         Lizzie; I love you so much! I remember not wanting to go to Orchestra as well...make your choice with prayer--the Cello sure is great, but you have a lot of other talents as well. I love you so much little Sister!
            I love you all so much, see you on Sunday!

With a smile,
Elder Hardy

The Red Egg is Orthodox tradition--then they hit the eggs together, and whichever egg doesn't crack, wins! This was a gift from a member.

2) Who came first...


Bulgarian Laundry. Notice the dilapidated (though very powerful!) fan. One gets used to using towels with the texture of sandpaper (washing AND drying is an experience in scrubbing! I am sure it actually makes us cleaner at the end of the day).